One of the members of my engineering team died suddenly a few weeks ago. He was a brilliant engineer and only 21.
To respect the family, I am not posting much more information. However, I want still to take the time to talk about the contemplative journey caused by his untimely death.
As software engineers, we are passionate about technology. In embedded networking, we are passionate about the intricacies of the bits and bytes that make up communication.Most of our conversation is driven by technological talk.
Yet, we are foremost people. We are a community of workers, people who go home to their friends and family. We are a people that have dreams and goals, people who have a life beyond the bounds of work.
I remember the day a couple of weeks ago when his death was announced. After the initial shock had worn off, sadly there were still meetings and projects that were due. I tried to take time over lunch to reflect, but it’s hard to know how to reconcile the tasks of works with taking time to reflect on the engineer’s life.
As engineers, we build a competency in talking to each other about technical issues. However, it is much harder to talk about life and death with your co-workers. We look at each other not knowing exactly what to say. Life is much harder than bits and bytes.
From these sad events, I have been reminded of this firm conclusion: the value of a single human life dwarfs the value of the technology that we continuously dialog about.